Jerry Standridge and his wife Amanda have served as the youth pastors at Christian Assembly of God since the fall of 2000. Last year Jerry’s role as the Pastor of Student Ministries was expanded to include responsibility for all of the ministries within the student ministries department.
Jerry graduated from Thomas Edison State College with a Bachelor of Science in Applied Science & Technology (Nuclear Engineering) in January 2002. He is currently preparing to enroll in the graduate program at Global University with a focus on Leadership.
Jerry and Amanda were married on December 27, 1994. They have three wonderfully rambunctious children; Elizabeth (8), John (3) and Luke (1).
Like many of you, as a volunteer youth leader, I’ve struggled with the tough task of balancing a family, a flourishing ministry and a full-time job. I’ve dealt with the temptations to try and do everything my fulltime counterparts were doing, as well as the frustration of never having enough time to do all that I wanted to.
I would like to share with you five things I have discovered over the years that will help protect you from the dreaded early burnout whether you are full-time, part-time or volunteer. Some of these I learned quickly, others were learned the hard way.
“Love God” – “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind” (Matthew 22:37). This is an easy one because it is the foundation for which we all exist.
“Love Students” – “My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends” (John 15:12-13). This is another obviously easy concept to grasp, although I have found that it is not always easy to put this into practice when dealing with teenagers.
“Find God’s vision for your ministry” – By understanding God’s vision for your ministry you will get a clear picture of where you are going and what you are to accomplish for the Lord. This gives you a foundation on which all of your planning, events and services are focused on.
“It’s OK to say ‘No’” – Over the course of your ministry you will get lots of great ideas and suggestions, many of which you will come up with yourself. However, just because an idea is great doesn’t mean you have to do it. By being grounded in your vision you will be able to say “no” to ideas that are not in line with your vision.
“Failure is an option” – Don’t be afraid to try new things. Contrary to popular belief, it is OK to fail as long as you are moving toward your vision. A dream that doesn’t seem impossible to most everyone else isn’t really a dream worth shooting for. Dare to dream.
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