Fear Factor:
Here’s a Reality Show for you!
Everyday in America…..
1. About 1,000 teens become unwed mothers
2. About 4,200 teens contract a STD.
3. About 500 adolescents begin using drugs.
4. About 1,000 adolescents begin drinking alcohol.
5. About 135,000 kids bring guns or weapons to school.
6. About 2,600 teens are assaulted, around 80 are raped.
7. About 2,200 teens drop out of high school.
8. About 6 teens commit suicide.
In today’s society there is a very real enemy that is trying to destroy the institution of marriage by distorting our teens’ perspective on SEX!
Biblical Text: Genesis 3:1-7
Enemy’s Plan:
1. To Cast Doubt
2. To Keep us Discouraged
3. To Make a Diversion
4. To Cause Defeat
5. To Delay the Promises and Purpose of the Lord
To Cast Doubt: Gen. 3:1-6
1. There are too many rules in the bible. God doesn’t want me to have fun.
2. Making out is not a big deal. We are not going all the WAY.
3. What is wrong with having sex if we are in LOVE?
Hebrews 13:4- Sex belongs to marriage only. It is a beautiful gift that we give our spouse.
To Keep us Discouraged: Gen. 3:4
1. The enemy gets us to focus on our problems other than God’s goodness.
a. Marriage is not for everyone – look at what happened to my parents.
b. What is wrong with me? I never get asked out on any dates.
God wants us to be respected and admired! 1 Peter 3:16 – If the person you are dating dumps you because you choose to live a life of purity….they aren’t worth having.
Make A Diversion: Gen 3:6
1. The enemy will try to make wrong things seem attractive, so we would desire it over good.
a. At least I attend church and come from a good family. It doesn’t matter what my family or youth pastor says.
We must stay focused and not compromise. We should strive to be like Jesus – tempted, but unwilling to compromise (Hebrews 4:15) Proverbs 5:22-23 and Proverbs 6:25-26 talk about keeping a clear head when making important decisions.
To Cause Defeat: Gen. 3:6-7
1. When we have given in to temptation, it makes us feel like a failure or that it’s too late.
a. What’s the big deal - everyone makes mistakes. Everybody is doing it anyway!
b. It wasn’t my fault and it’s my choice…so why try to live pure?
c. I keep messing up.
We must learn to RUN and stay away from things that arouse our curiosity and make us tempted. I Corinthians 6:18 says that when you feel yourself being tempted, you should get away!
Delay the Promises & Purpose of the Lord: Gen 3: 8-9
1. The enemy will try to make us forfeit our dreams, compromise and settle for less.
a. I don’t want to lose him - we are going to get married after high school.
God wants us to have the best life, peace and to see how our troubles turn out for good. Psalms 37:4-9, Romans 8: 6, 28.
For Real- How Can We Defeat The Enemy!
We must understand that God desires to have an intimate relationship with Him. Thank God for Jesus who opens the way for us to renew our relationship and have fellowship. Remember, God longs to be with us and offer unconditional love.
The Best Defense is A Good Offense!
1. Visualize what you will say and do in a situation where your faith is on the line. What would your response be in each of these situations?
a. C’mon, everybody’s doing it!
b. What’s the big deal?
c. I thought we loved each other?
d. I’ll only go as far as you want me.
e. We’ve done it before, why can’t we do it again?
SET YOUR STANDARDS BEFORE
Area Scripture Standard
Respecting Parents Colossians 3:20 I will obey my parents desire
about who I date.
Person to date Galatians 5:19-23 I will only date growing
Christians
Response to a “come on” 2 Timothy 2:22 I will ask to go home
immediately.
Accountability
1. Two are better than one…. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
2. ...encourage one another… I Thessalonians 5:11
Guard Your Eyes
1. …..if therefore your eye is clear, your whole body will be full of light - Matthew 6:22-23
2. I made a covenant with my eyes - Job 31:1
Avoid Tempting Situations
1. …make no provision for the flesh - Romans 13:14
2. Can a man scoop fire into his lap - Proverbs 6:27
3. Can a man walk on hot coals - Proverbs 6:28
Be cautious! (Certain parties, people, places, positions, conversations, movies and websites, music and dress)
WALK IN THE SPIRIT
“Walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desires of the flesh.” Galatians 5:16
By Faith:
1. Desire to be filled with the Holy Spirit.
2. Confess any known sin – 1 John 1:9
3. YEILD
Ask the Holy Spirit to fill you – 1 John 5 |